Attention and Focus: Your Reality is Not An Accident

Wherever your consistent focus is, at root, will manifest. Your 3D is simply a crystal clear mirror of where your focus has been. If you’ve focused only on how your limiting beliefs hold you back from your desired reality, the 3D will present that same idea. It loops continuously until you decide to turn it off or change ‘stations’. 

First off, you’ll hear me say the word ‘focus’ a lot. I want to define this so clearly so that you can really call yourself out in the future and adjust accordingly. 

When I say ‘focus’, I mean all of it. Your dominant, consistent thoughts. Whatever initially comes to mind when you think of career, finance, love, relationships, etc., is your key to what your dominant thoughts around that aspect are. Whatever feeling arises when you think of that aspect is also a great indicator.

If you constantly focus on how your career is failing, or assume rejection, assume your incompetence, expect the undesired, then congratulations on manifesting successfully – just not in the way you wanted. 

If you constantly focus on how you have no friends, are treated poorly by others, loop/play arguments in your head (‘imagined’ or from the past), then congratulations! I can tell you you’ve got none. 

Now, this may be a ‘hot take’ for some of you, but it’s a realization I’ve come to that I slightly introduced at the start of this post. But when you continuously focus on the idea that you have ‘limiting beliefs’ around a certain aspect of your life, then they’ll just keep showing up. Why? Because you’re putting your attention there (having blockages to begin with).

I’m not saying abandon self work or improvement. Just shift the idea or assumption that you have ‘problems’ to begin with. Look at them in a more positive light. Instead of saying, “I need to fix all these limiting beliefs”, just say, “I’m so proud of myself for bettering my (whatever it is you’re working on, ex. ‘Self concept’, ‘mental health’).” Notice how I spoke past tense. Notice how I never said I had anything remotely negative that was blocking me from what I wanted. 

This is also why I stopped really engaging with improvement groups and do it solo. Not saying that it’s a bad thing to be part of whatsoever, it’s wonderful to build a community and get better together, but when you’re joining a ton of groups or following these ‘how to get (your desire)” videos or accounts, you just keep subtly affirming how the 3D is controlling your thoughts and feelings, and how you don’t have what you want yet, and how you don't trust yourself to have the answer.

Stop searching. You know the answer.

Remember that fear in the new story is just faith in the old one. You’re believing very strongly, consistently, and loyally – it’s just not the ‘right’ desire. 

Whenever you ask someone ‘how’ they got to where they are, or ‘how’ they manifested something, I will be the first upfront to tell you that it isn’t some ‘step-by-step’ thing, it is so personal to you because YOU are the ONLY CREATOR in YOUR REALITY, and everyone else is a mirror to who you are BEING. So stop being so passive to your dreams and passions, your goals or end desires. Declare them, assert them, and believe them to be yours, simply because, duh, it’s your reality. Why live life if not lavishly?