Downtown JC - recommendations for date spots, bars, or restaurants WITHOUT loud music or crowds?? [I have a speech impediment]

I live in downtown JC, and I'm looking for a few QUIETER bars and restaurants which are suitable for an evening date spot!

From walking around downtown, I've noticed all the bars are VERY loud.

(I have a speech impediment. It is very difficult to speak clearly over loud music, people's conversations nearby, or other interruptions. Thanks!)