Why do teens not take grape seriously?!

I 13M am in the 8th grade, so I’m bound to hear a lot of wild shit. But one that makes me the most angry, is how much grape is thrown around like it’s a joke. I’m sure we’ve all heard it used in a gaming context for example, “I’m getting graped by two dudes, I need backup”. It really irritates me because IT ISN’T FUNNY AND NEVER WILL BE. I’ve tried so many times to get my friend to stop shouting slurs and other nonsensical things while on the game, but it’s useless. Grape isn’t even the surface of things I’ve heard, but I digress. If you know anybody that doesn’t take this stuff seriously, I urge you to do so before it gets to a point. Fingers hurt, felt like I had to point this out. Ty for reading, God bless🙏🏽🙏🏽