Long Distance Relationship
So finally evariki cheppalo teliyaka, i just want to rant out how happy i am being in a LDR.
Me(22M) and her(20F), we met in a online internship on satellite design in 2021, we moved along pretty well and we became like best friends gradually. Basically nenu HYD but i am currently in USA and she is from pune but studies in Mumbai.
After 2 years, we finally managed to meet, appati varaki we never actually, adhe memu chesina thappu appudu, i had my college and projects and appudu i never got to go to mumbai and meet her. Madhyalo mamayya valla visa kosam mumbai occhanu, but konni urgent situations valla kalvalekapoyanu.
And finally july 2023, nenu US ki velthunnappudu mumbai ki velli flight ekkudham anukunte intlo oppukole, inka idhantha kaadh ani, mumbai lo layover unna flights chusanu, and i managed to book one with almost 9 hours layover in mumbai.
Adhe naa first time thanani actual ga kalvadam, and aa moments inka gurthunnayi, the couple of hours we spent together, appudu anipichindhi asal ndhuku eppudu efforts pettaledhu vachi kalvadaaniki ani, em miss ayyano appudu telsindhi, we are still best friends aa point lo kuda, we went to marine drive talked for a while, and cafe hoping ala finallyy airport ki velli one final goodbye to the place i call home.
US ki occhina 2 weeks tarvaatha one day she asks me out, thanu adigindhi ani kaadhu, but india lo unnappudu okasari express chesanu thanaki, relation lo unte ela unde vallamu ani, probably happy ala. So inka ikkadiki occhaka she said " she thought a lot about this, and if its me it would never go wrong" and i happily said yes. So, thats how me started in long distance.
Life has been beautiful ever since, she has been with me ever since, supported me, ardham chesukunedhi ekkadiki vellina frnds tho, even if i was on a trip for 2 days driving, she would just say, drop me a text or call when u stopped for gas, might be the small things, but seeing a lot of my friends, i felt ivi chaal le manaki, eppudu em chesthunnav ani 1 hr ki oka update adige antha prema oddhu, ila unte chaalu anipichindhi.
Ala oka 1 and half years gadichipoyayi, godavalu kuda ayyayi, madhyalo oka 1 week maatladaledhu, inka ala chinna chinnavi ayyayi, finally we met last novemeber, i came to india novemeber lo, occhina first week motham i stayed in mumbai, the most beautiful phase of my life, i got a lego for her, which we built together and took a lot of polaroids, and aa one week ela gadichipoindho theleedhu, and i had to come to hyd.
Occhina next week she said she wants to meet me again before going back to pune to her home, so inka aa roju mrng thana text raagane, eesari thanaki hyd chupiddham anukunna, booked a flight for her that night, hyd ki occhindhi, inka raagane thanaki hyd chupinchaanu, she loves plays so i took her to ramoji film city and tarvatha charminar, food ki nayaab neloufer, mandi@36 and SOUL ( idhi worst bayya),Fine dine kadha manchi experience anukunnam but it was such a let down. But hyd has some good hotels to stay. So ala 2 days gadichipoyayi and she flew back to Mumbai.
So inka almost 1 and half month india lo spend chesaka finally inka US vellalsina time ochesindhi, and naa flight malli mumbai nunchi, so inka ekkuva time spend cheyoch ani, i booked a train hyd to mumbai, she came back to hyd, and ala start indhi maa 14 hrs train journey, and thats how we got to spend 14 hours more. Lucky ga 1st AC available ga unde so inka prashanthanga travel chesamu. And mumbai ki vellaka 1 day time undhi, which we went to go karting, movies ala naa india trip oka manchi day tho mugisindhi. Now that it made me realise how beautiful love is, ldr is worth it if its for the right person. I wish i could share all the gifts we got and stuff we bought, the trip just brought me back here with a ton of memories to cherish. 🧿
Currently interviews jaruguthunnayi job kosam, naadhi software kaadh ikkada so not in a rat race ( no offence), oka internship offer undhi currently, but full time ki searching so i can get back to india in june july if i have a full time, so inka job ochesthe i can go back to india for couple of weeks. So andhuke gattiga kurchunna job searching meedha so i can meet her again. 🤞
Thanaki US ocche plans levu, so inka nene plan chesthunna india ki vellipodham ani, intlo masters complete chesi occhey annaru, but naak oka 2-3 yrs aina work chesi veldham anukuntunna. Life here isnt as beautiful as they speak anyways.
TLDR : LDR lo undadam antha kastam kaadhu bayya, okarniokaru easy ga ardham cheskuntaaru, and its beautiful.
Edit: peddha typing error so malli reposting 😭