What is the absolute easiest way to lose your virginity?

I’m 22 and I’ll probably be at a decent enough weight to see people in the next 5-6 months. I’m mentally at my lowest and need to check this box off, I feel like a complete joke having gone this long in my life without being with someone. I also need to get over my huge fear of other people seeing my body and hopefully this’ll help.

Do I just get on grindr? I have no idea how safe it is to hook up with people on there and I’m obviously afraid of getting outed by someone I know (I live in a small state) or getting an std, but I don’t really see any other options.