Are sexless relationships worth it when [almost] everything else is good?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for more than 6 years. At the beginning of our relationship I was top and he was bottom. 2 years in the relationship and we having less and less sex. At that time, he told me that he had some sexual kinks that I could not satisfied (which indeed I couldn’t) so we decided to open the relationship. Few months after we stop having sex at all.

For me, at that time, I didn’t considered myself to be quite sexual, so I was completely fine with a sexless life since the rest of our relationship was great. He is my best friend, we share so many hobbies, we just feel good being together.

Recently, he left the country for one year for working holiday. Few weeks ago, I started to explore more and more being bottom, and I discovered how much I liked being a bottom. In the past, I never let myself try it and I love it. I started having sex with a guy that makes me feel so good. This is so new to me and so nice… I think I was never a top, and I am fully a bottom. I talked with my boyfriend about it, and he said that he doesn’t see me in any sexual way anymore. Not attracted to me at all. And the feeling is mutual. Also, he said he can only do bottom.

Before I was fine with a sexless life, but I think because I didn’t care much about sex, until I started bottoming. I am questioning what do I really want from a relationship. I don’t want to throw away all these years together just because the novelty of having a dick in my ass. But also, being touched and feeling desired like that felt so nice!

My boyfriend doesn’t want to break up with me. He is fine with this sexless life.

I don’t know if i should stay in this relationship, where the rest is good but no sex at all. Some days I feel I want to beak up, other days I don’t because I enjoy so much being and talking with him.

Any words of advice that can help me navigate this?