How do I deprogram my internalized homophobia?

I (15) have realized recently that I have some internalized homophobia. Specially for those in the Sapphic community. (I don't know the proper term for it so I've just been using homophobia) I am afab, as well as bi.

I don't view women as inferior to men, although my parents and childhood tried to teach a little of that to me. I also don't have anything negative to think about any of the community. I just find myself more detached from Sapphic releated topics? If that makes sense? And when I see Sapphic relationships they seem weirder to me than gay relationships. I think this may be because I consume a lot more gay media than I do Sapphic media so it's less normalized for me but I'm not sure. I feel like there's something wrong with me because there's some kinds of barrier that's stopping me from feeling how I'm supposed to feel. If you all have any advice that would be great.