Where is the fat dropping from

So I (42F) started on 25th June this year, I'm down from 209lbs to 196.2lbs and I just cannot see where the weight is coming off.

Bought a smart tape measure and none of my measurements have changed. I can see that my face is a bit slimmer, but surely that's not accounting for almost 13lbs? I'm so confused.

Anyone else experience weight loss without measurement changes?

Meanwhile partner (44M) has lost 2 inches off his belly in half of the time. 🙄