why do some people insist on stayying after rejection

so like a lot of women , i too get dms from guys . a bit of backstory im only 17 , but i still get dms from guys of various age groups , and so i say im too young and stuff . and they are like i just want to talk . no dude u dont want to just talk , ur obviously looking from some chance to date .

now im not saying this because i consider myself very beautiful or anything . in fact im quite ugly .i do not want to appear egoistic. but then again , almost every woman that gets a dm from a guy , is for this purpose only . he is looking for a chance to date her. and this isnt because guys are very desperate or anything . its just because thats how social media is . but i honestly dont like that fact that even after u say no . they are like i just want to talk to you , i just want to be friends . sure dude u at 28 just wants to be friends with a 17 year old girl .

its honestly pretty terrible this tactic , because almost every guy i have been like ok lets be friends , on the second or third day will say some nsfw stuff or ask me out again . so i would much much prefer is guys are like kindly i would like to date u , and once we say no or yes , they would leave or stay accordingly

now u might ask , well wont some guys want friendship only . yes that category is there , there is this really nice guy i met on reddit and im friends with , but guess what the first time he dmed me was about jee , and not about whether or not i would like to date him . so we can clearly tell the difference

to everyone who says just block the dms at all , i dont want to be so cynical , i still want to believe that there are some guys who just wanna be friends , i have have found some really sweet guys like that here . like the one who i mentioned above , which is why im not closing my dms

I DO NOT MEAN ALL GUYS , IM TALKING SPECIFICALLY ABOUT THOSE WHO AFTER GETTING REJECTED immediately ASK TO STAY FRIENDS

( now i know this post looks heavily like i think too much about myself , in fact due to some events in my past i happen to have inferiority complexes and have been to therapy for that , so i can assure its not the case, and it would also seem like i look down on all men . but that is so not the case . i respect men a lot , there are wonderful men in my life , like the ones i mentioned before . its just i want to know the psyche behind guys after getting rejected immediate asking to be a friend , knowing that they dont have ay intention of just friendship)

just today i got a dm from a 27 year old guy ( i didnt know he was 27 until he told ) , i immediately told him i was 17 , and his response was " ok wyd cutiepie " , i was like im not looking for anything here. he said do u want a valentine . i said no im not . and then immedtialy he goes , okay just trying to have a convo . then i call him a pedo . and then he goes on this tirade of how he was just looking for someone to talk and im way over in my mind , and i think too higly of myself . its just so tiring

what are yalls thoughts on this