Any girls here not into anal?

Hey :)

I'm noticing that almost every sex thread for pre/non op girls here talks about anal. I personnally don't enjoy receiving (or giving) anal, I find it not worth it (not enough pleasure, prep time required, risks of tears...), am I the only one?

In the gay community lots of gay don't engage in anal sex (they are called sides) but in straight couples (trans girl/cis guy), it's like it's expected to have someone penetrated. In my personal experience with cis straight men, it's been quite difficult for me because most view sex as penetrative, and they don't have the gay culture to get that it's not always the case.

I hope my post makes sense ahah. If you're in this situation, do you have any tips for activities that don't involve anal? And how to explain it to a cis straight guy who never questioned this?

Thanks sisters