I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.

Isn't interesting that every single woman around here says that she doesn't find older men attractive, but at the same time every single woman seems to have at least one experience of dating older?

The truth is that a 35 year old man who has his shit together won't have much trouble dating someone 10-15 years younger is that's what he wants.

It might be a bad idea for other reasons, but the point is that he can still do it.