What in the actual

My husband actually had the nerve to angrily say “it can’t all be on me!” when I told him he’d have to ask his boss if he could leave work ON TIME some days, to pick up our daughter from daycare so she’s not there for so long. I get her ready and drop her off there at 7am, and I’m not off until 5. I don’t get home until almost 6pm. He leaves home at 8am, and is supposed to be off at 4pm. Him saying “it can’t all be on me” was a literal slap in the face, considering it is ALL on ME. If our daughter is sick, he says I have to stay home from work with her. (I could very easily lose my new job over that.) I have to drop her off at daycare. If I can’t stay home, I have to call MY family. If I don’t want her there for 10.5 hours, I have to figure out a way to leave early from work (which my boss already said is not an option)- vs him simply asking to leave ON time. How is this fair? He asked me to go back to work, but demands all of this from only me? And says it can’t all be on HIM?

Please tell me I’m not crazy and this man has some friggin’ GALL.