My roommate

Hey,

I think I need help.

Background: My boyfriend and I currently live with my parents. We had to move in because our apartment flooded and had a huge mold issue due to landlord neglect and it was making me very sick. I have a chronic illness and getting really sick like that could kill me. I think we moved in with my parents about 2 or 3 months ago. I had moved in with my boyfriend for 4 months before coming to my parents. We both had no where to go and my parents said we could stay. They say there home is open to me if I ever needed to come back. My boyfriend is very sweet, helpful and non combative and they seem to like him. Shortly after my sister found out she was pregnant, her baby daddy decided to introduce her to someone who he turned out to be dating and she was super close to her due date. They both stopped talking to him and started to become friends. So their kids are sisters.

The issue: my sisters friend moved in a month before I came back. Her friend said that her lease was ending, that she lost the apartment that she was gonna move into and her mom won't let her move in. My mom welcomed her with open arms. My parents own their house so me and my siblings all have our own rooms and sections in the bathroom, mugs, storage in the garage ect. And everyone gets along. I think it's one of the best family's to welcome people in. My parents gave her my bedroom, my bed, my side of the counter in the bathroom, my storage in the bathroom, and she slowly is moving my stuff out of my bedroom into the hallway.

I have had many problems with my sisters friend since I met her a year ago but I still said yes to her and her baby to staying in my bed. Something I worked hard to get so I'm comfortable and not in pain due to my illness. But it was until she could get her own mattress to then house. When I came back I've fought with my parents many times about getting my bed because my boyfriend and I were sleeping on an airmattress then my boyfriends old mattress that we had to bring in and out of the garage everyday until I finally got my bed. Which was covered in pee from her child.

I've watched her ask anyone (including myself until I said no) to hold her child for a second and not come back downstairs for hours. While her child cries and the person holding them gets annoyed and calls for her.

She doesn't pay rent, never helped clean until a week ago when we made a chore chart (would tell me no when we all tried to split the chores), hasn't applied anywhere, doesn't have a date when she will be out because this was supposed to be temporary, is loud when she talks, stares so deep into your eyes if you say anything that she doesn't like, has a way to make her feel guilty if you wanna say no so you say yes, makes jokes to make fun of my personality or body, will move my stuff, tried to message my boyfriend to do things for her baby then displayed in on the tv when he didnt answer her, immediately called me aunty and my boyfriend uncle to her baby when we just moved in, was trying to be sneaky about whether or not my boyfriend was getting picked up by girls, (they were his two guy friends that I know) will make rude comments to me about my bathroom habits, (due to my illness) smokes dabs in my space when I ask her not to, (can't be around smoke due to my illness) doesn't clean up after herself or her baby, trying to get people to change her baby when she has a blow out, didn't clean the couch for days when her baby puked all over it and our guests, makes comments saying we are never getting whatever space was originally my comfort space, ect!!

This has created division in the relationships in the house. I have reacted when my boundaries are push, when she says something she knows I don't like etc. It has caused a drop in my mental health and I had to do a leave for school.

My parents think I'm making up stuff or lying about stuff like the pee all over bed regardes of the pictures I took. Everytime i bring up something that i didnt like to her and my parents, she saying im lying or she never did that. My parents believe her. My mom tried to kick us out yesterday but took it back after the argument. We had an argument because this woman has been having my 6 year old sister watch her 1 year old. I've been told I'm crazy, a liar, controlling and entitled.

I think I'm a victim of emotional manipulation. I have so many stories to tell about this girl in the less of a year I've known her. From rude comments to her telling me no or trying to get infront of me while trying to hold my sisters leg when she was pushing her baby put. I found a website talking about emotional manipulation and the tactics and everything down to the description fits.

How do I bring myself back and not let this person ruin my family through me? I feel like I need to leave and not have contact with my family until she is no longer there.