Tolga & Shilla theory
SPOILER
I think they slept together and that’s why Tolga broke up with her
My totally unverified and total speculation based on my own experience of dating TOXIC AF CHAUVANISTIC men in my life:
Where I come from men “test” women they are with. They will try to sleep with you; to see how easy you are. If you sleep with them, they get utterly disgusted and think you’re trash and therefore not worthy of being their beautiful virginal Madonna wife
I have literally had an ex bf explain this to me, saying he was so glad I didn’t sleep with him on the first night or he would be forced to break up with me. I broke up with him after hearing that from him!
That’s what I think happened to Tolga. He also really wants a Turkish partner. He went ON AND ON about meeting his parents. I think he’s traditional. In one of the dates in the pod (can’t remember which) he kept asking over and over something along the lines of “how many relationships have you had?” which got kinda awkward and to me was obvious code for “how many men have you slept with already?”
I think Shilla slept with him, he decided she’s disgusting for that reason, and ended it.
So horrible, and hypocritical. Not to mention the huge self diss this attitude is (ie. “you slept with ME?! You must be trash”) 😂
Why did he keep showing up for filming . Let it go, bro