NEED HELP: False Allegations of Rape by Ex-GF -- Need Urgent Advice.
Hi everyone, I'm seeking urgent legal advice as I'm currently facing a situation that has spiraled out of control. Here's the full story for context:
I (19M) met this girl (18F) on December 25, 2024, through a mutual friend (20M) and his girlfriend (18F). She was a close friend of my friend's girlfriend. We hit it off at a New Year carnival and started chatting and calling each other from December 26 onward.
On the night of December 26, the girl and my friend's girlfriend showed interest in coming to our place. My friend and I agreed. All four of us spent the night in the same room, on two different beds. Nothing sexual happened between me and her, except for a few kisses.
A similar thing happened on January 1, but this time we stayed in separate rooms. She was on her period, so once again, nothing sexual occurred except for some cuddling and kisses.
She came alone to my place on January 4. We spent the night together, just cuddled, and slept. Again, no sexual activity happened.
On January 7, she and my friend's girlfriend asked us to bring beer. We did, and all four of us spent the night together in the same room, just like the first time. She had a small amount of beer (150ml), felt tired, and went to sleep.
On January 18, she called me late at night (around 1:30 AM) and wanted to come over to have sex but decided against it because it was too late. She came over the next night (January 19). While we were watching a movie together, she was scrolling through her phone gallery, and I saw an intimate photo of her with another guy. I asked her about it, and she claimed it was her brother.
The Issue:
I found out through mutual connections that the guy in the photo was her current boyfriend (20M), which she had been hiding from me. Feeling betrayed, I broke up with her and shared the details with her boyfriend because I believed he deserved to know the truth.
After I exposed her, she accused me of making her drunk and raping her. She has now started spreading this false story among her coaching friends. Her boyfriend is also threatening me based on her lies.
Current situation:
• No FIR has been filed yet, but her false allegations are spreading fast.
• Only my PG friends know about the incident from my side.
• I haven't told my parents yet as I don't want to worry them unnecessarily.
Evidence I Have
Witnesses: My friend (20M) and his girlfriend (18F) were present on multiple occasions and can testify that nothing inappropriate happened.
Call Recordings: I mistakenly admitted in one recording that we both drank at my place with her consent because she wanted to drink.
Text Messages: I have chats that show the relationship was consensual and that she willingly visited my place multiple times.
What I Need Advice On
Preventive Legal Measures: Should I file a preventive complaint with the police to safeguard myself from a potential FIR?
Handling False Allegations: What legal steps can I take to protect myself from her false claims and defamation?
Informing My Parents: Should I inform my parents now, or wait until the situation escalates further?
Dealing with Threats: How do I handle the threats from her boyfriend? Should I file a complaint against him?
Additional Concerns
• If this false story reaches her family or mine, how do I prepare for the fallout?
• How can I ensure my safety and avoid legal trouble while proving my innocence?
Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated. I'm completely new to handling legal matters and just want to protect myself and clear my name.
Thank you!
( I took help of chatgpt for creating the post but the things said in post are all mine)