Pride issues among virgin men

I am starting to get real tired seeing men posting or making comments that seem to insinuate that they are "better" or "more Chirstian" because they are virgins. I want to make something clear, there is a HUGE difference between being a virgin because you have the spiritual strength and perseverance to overcome the temptation that is consistently thrown at you and being a virgin because no women want you. I would venture to guess almost all of the men on this sub who brag about their virginity tend to be the type of men no women want. They blame their "virginity" as the reason no women want them but it is merely an attempt to dodge personal responsibility for their many other shortcomings as a man.

Being a virgin or not being a virgin in itself does not make a man attractive to a woman. It is confidence, initiative, leadership and strength among many other masculine characteristics that make a man attractive. Both virgin and non virgin men can exhibit these qualities. Problem is that most of the men on this sub claim women specifically don't like them because they are virgins. The same rules for attracting women like dressing better, working out, going on casual dates with women still apply though to both virgin and non virgin men. I think women would find it even more attractive if despite the endless amounts of attention a man got, he was able to remain a virgin because it shows steadfastness and self control. So all this to say that no one cares about your virginity if you are only a virgin because you have faced 0 temptation.

Just as much as a fighter, who has an 0-0 record, is not a champion just because he never lost a fight, a virgin man is not automatically the embodiment of spiritual fortitude just because he never gets tested by good looking women.