AIO(30f) thinking I gotta leave this guy(30m)?

This conversation started out kind of joking around but quickly took a turn.

I’ve known this man for 12 years and we started dating last year. He’s usually more mature and understanding than this, but we’ve definitely had arguments in our relationship that have led to or been caused by disrespect. We are long distance and occasionally “have sex” over the phone or FaceTime. Recently, he shared that he’d taken screenshots of me during some of these sessions without telling me at the time. I told him I didn’t like that he hadn’t asked, and to do so in the future. Last night we got sexual, and today he told me he’d taken screenshots. I thought he was joking because we just recently covered this. I asked him to show me and he sent two screenshots he’d taken of me during explicit poses… this is the conversation that ensued.

We’ve been through a lot over the years and I know we love each other, I’d hate to throw that away over an immature fight or misunderstanding. But something about this exchange turned me cold.

TL/DR: boyfriend took pics of me without consent, again, then got upset with me