Looking for feedback - AITA?

Am I wrong for feeling like birth parents who had any say in relinquishment need to stop hijacking adoptee spaces looking for "sisterhood". Like, you made a choice, you regret it, ok. I'm not a shoulder to cry on. I didn't have a choice. You're complicit. Go away. Lol.

Am I the asshole for not holding space for consenting relinquishers?

This excludes forced adoption victims, including father's who were denied an option.